Yes, at first the habit of signing in and seeing what everyone I know (knew?) had been up to while I slept, made itself felt. But I was spending far too much time there, so I stayed away. After approximately two weeks I forgot about FB, except when something I’m interested in wants me to sign in through FB, or worse, my favorite local nursery’s website is a FB page.
Posting on FB had ups and downs. Do I always post happy stuff I wondered. I survived lectures about posting protest types of comments. One was said with a little laughter at my expense, suggesting that I wasn’t enlightened enough. A lot of my acquaintances were in the realm of woo-woo, which can be wonderful, until it isn’t. Until they tell you the things they see in your aura without having been asked, and it’s never good.
Every time the news posted something about the lack of privacy on FB my inner Ron Swanson would go on high alert.
Do I care how many people “Like” a particular post? Sometimes, and I questioned that and was not thrilled with my answer. More frustrating was the lack of human responses beyond a “like” or an emoji. I also don’t appreciate seeing other people’s food that doesn’t involve a professional food stylist. Don’t they see that it looks like dry vomit or fresh road kill? If it’s delicious, tell me about that, with words.
I’m happy to say I never developed an inner grammar police. I’d see the typos or errors, stop, double check I understood the meaning and keep going. Not everyone got an A in English. Some folks speak several languages, but English wasn’t their first so naturally, there are mistakes.
Then there are the comments I didn’t post because, well, family.
It wasn’t just my family, it was his family too.
FB was useful for instant messaging, but then I found myself using that more than the main page. Don’t I have a phone that can text? Why yes I do. And all the while FB is prodding me to update photos, to post a new comment. It dawned on me that I had more acquaintances than friends. I started a new job and life got busier. My writing time dwindled.
Finally, someone shared that FB is keeping tabs on my account by having a “friend” hiding in the shadows. One I could not delete. It is, after all, their service, I’m just the squirrel trying to get a nut.
It’s been since the end of February. I write more, I call or text friends, I read the newspaper when I want to know what’s going on in the world, and I feel fine.